Frustrated Inc.

It’s generally a well-known fact that the family court system is somewhat skewed toward women. In all honesty, it’s generally my gender’s own fault. Since time immemorable (for me at least), the general purpose of the family court system has seemingly been to get fathers to have some simulation of involvement in the lives of…

Truth be told, yesterday was something of a crap day.  I mean, nothing in particular made it particularly disastrous or anything, it’s just that for a little while there, I lost my hope.  Lost hope, meant lost joy, and lost joy meant lost focus.  Let’s be straight up.  I miss my son.  I only get…

On and On It Seems to Go

Looking at the end of another year… It’s funny what 366 days will bring.  I started the year with a month-old son that refused to sleep through the night, a dread of my relationship and how much (little) sex I’d have throughout the course of the year, as well as a general sense of feeling…

Importance of Excellence

One point that I want to make sure that my son learns is the value of excellence.  It almost seems like mediocrity is applauded in American society today, in that they don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings and want to validate their ‘trying’.  It’s kind of funny considering the counterbalance that society throws toward it…

Daddy-Li’l Dude time 12-19

Well, after more than a week, I get another hour with Xian.  I’m wondering how the courts view this as equitable or useful for promoting a meaningful relationship with my son.  I’m at least thankful for the fact that he recognizes me when he sees me.  In fact, his face lit up like a kid…